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8 Signs He's Only Using You For A Weekend Hook Up

How to be aware of the signs and know your worth.

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8 Signs He's Only Using You For A Weekend Hook Up
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1. He only texts you at night

Ladies, the number one rule is that if he hits you up after midnight asking to “chill,” this is obviously a red flag because he clearly only wants to see you at night.

2. He only texts you during weekends

Nope, not even a “how is your week going?” If he only messages you when Friday hits, this should be a sign too. If us girls always have to initiate the conversation during the week, then this is a huge problem.

3. You never meet his family or friends

Does he have any siblings? Is he a mama’s boy? What is his cousin’s name? Oh come on I’m sure you met his best friend? No? Newsflash, if you never met any of his friends or family members then he pretty much doesn’t take this “relationship” seriously.

4. He never takes you out

You literally only hang out at his place or yours. If you're worried about trying to get this "relationship" public, this is where you get out now.

5. He won't talk about commitment

If you guys are spending a lot of time together and wonder why you guys aren’t moving on to the next level, this is a sign he’s not taking this seriously. You obviously want to know what the future holds for you guys and every time he doesn’t want to talk about the C-word, you get more and more frustrated.

6. He's always ignoring your texts or leaving you on read

If he is always ignoring your texts, opening your snapchats and leaving them on “read,” and declining your calls, this is an issue. You can’t just allow a guy to message you whenever he pleases, especially when it is 2AM.

7. He is never affectionate in public

If he seems distant in public or never wants to hold hands or kiss, this is obviously a red flag. Even around his friends, he should be showing you off! What’s wrong with holding hands?

8. You don't know anything about each other

It is important for the two of you to bond when you are alone together. Not just hooking up. If you two can’t have a simple conversation with each other without being awkward, and would rather have sex, this is a sign that maybe he is just not the right one for you. It’s important to have good communication skills with someone if you want to have a relationship.

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