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10 Questions You Actually SHOULD Ask Your College Kid This Holiday Season

Because we're all sick of the stress-inducing, relationship related trivia.

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10 Questions You Actually SHOULD Ask Your College Kid This Holiday Season
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We all wait around in angst for the most wonderful time of the year to roll around- The Holidays. Reasonably, there are many things to love about the Holidays: being home, spending time with loved ones, seeing relatives. But of course, there is also the dreaded dark cloud that hangs over every college student's head when the Holiday season rolls around: The Questions.

Personally, my least favorite question is the one that I find having myself answering way too often:

"Do you have a boyfriend yet?"

In which I find myself in a constant state of trying to explain myself:

"You know what, I just started college..."

"I'm really trying to focus on my classes,"

"I guess I just haven't found anyone yet."

While I don't owe an explanation to anyone, I find myself staring back at a disappointed, sincere face. And to be frank, it's awkward.

This Christmas, let's avoid the uncomfortable relationship questions and instead, ask questions that might steer a conversation.

1. "What was your most interesting class this past semester?"

2. "How different is your college town than your hometown?"

3. "What is the coolest thing you did this semester?"

4. "What do you feel the proudest of so far?"

5. "How do you spend your free time on campus?"

6. "What is a cool skill you've learned?"

7. "What's a perfect day on campus like so far?"

8. "How are you getting along with your roommate?"

9. "What is the weirdest thing about your college experience?"

10. "Are you excited for next semester?"

There are so many questions you can ask that will avoid uncomfortable situations and stop your beloved college student from breaking a sweat or shedding a tear.

Relatives: We love you, and we missed you, but stop asking about my damn boyfriend.

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