6 Things I've Learned Since Dating An Athlete
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6 Things I've Learned Since Dating An Athlete

6 Things I've Learned... And Counting.

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6 Things I've Learned Since Dating An Athlete
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I’ve heard you should never date a male athlete for the following reasons: he lacks commitment, carries around a huge ego, and is undoubtedly a player. Now I’m not saying these aren’t true (for some)—because they are. But since ignoring all of these reasons and dating an athlete, I’ve also learned so much more.

They’re driven.

Athletes know what they want and they know what it takes to get it. They’re completely goal-oriented, having dedicated the majority of their lives to their sport. They’ve worked incredibly hard to get where they are, and they know perseverance and dedication like they know the back of their hands. So you know they won’t give up that easily and walk away if times get tough.



The gym will become your new best friend.

I’ve been to the gym more times this past month than I have been in my entire life combined just trying to keep up with my boy. It’s hard notto want to get fit when he’s rockin’ that athlete’s bod. And although my boyfriend tells me I already look great, it’s still nice to put in the effort to stay in shape. If he can do it, so can you. Plus, with him around, you’ll never lack motivation and you’ll always be guaranteed a workout buddy.


They’re competitive and immensely stubborn.

It’s in their blood. In life, you will not succeed unless you’re competitive—and this is especially true for athletes. But that part of them doesn’t just shut off in a relationship. They thrive off of the competition and strong mindedness. So if you’re equally as aggressive and stubborn, things will get interesting—and eventually, someone will have to (unwillingly) give in.


You will get jealous.

It’s inevitable. As much as you’d like to believe you won’t get jealous over other girls who give him attention, you most likely will. Of course this can be said about any relationship, but with athletes, it pretty much comes with the territory. So you'll need to trust that he'll make the right decisions and understand where you’re coming from. But also remember that trust is a two-way street.


They’re always hungry.

This is not an exaggeration. Trust me when I say that you will never have any leftover food while dating an athlete. You’ll go out to eat, and within an hour, he’ll be hungry and want to eat again. If your fridge is stocked, know that he’ll be the first one there to clean it out. It’s not his fault. Athletes just need more food to fuel their bodies. In fact, there may be times where you’ll need to sacrifice that last slice of pizza or those fries just because you know he needs it more. There will never be a moment during your relationship when he’s not eating, thinking of eating, or thinking of thinking of eating.


You’ll become his #1 fan.

With school, practice, and other extracurriculars, his life is pretty hectic. So be there for him when things get stressful. Wish him luck before games and school quizzes and exams. (Make sure he studies for said quizzes and exams.) Never let him forget how proud you are of his accomplishments, and always encourage him to do his best. But also know when you need to step back and give him space. Don’t baby him; just be there for him—like he should be for you.


While dating an athlete might sound fun—and it is—it’s also incredibly difficult with their schedules. So know that you’ll both have to make sacrifices, and like any couple, you’ll have more than a fair share of ups and downs. But never give up because some relationships are just worth fighting for.

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