Victimized By The Greek Community
Start writing a post
Student Life

Victimized By The Greek Community

35
Victimized By The Greek Community

I am in an underrepresented chapter. My sorority has pairs, sisterhood events, alumni and everything else that all the other chapters at my school have. So why are we so mistreated? It is incredibly simple: we do not have a house. 

At my school, the Greek community is huge, and all but three sororities have a mansion on campus. A few years ago, IU decided to expand Greek life by adding new Panhellenic chapters to the community. My chapter has only been on campus for about three years, so it makes sense that we are not in a house yet. What does not make sense, however, is how some other chapters treat us.  

“So, are you a real sorority?” I have heard this more times than I care to admit. Yes, I am in a real sorority. We are a Panhellenic organization with chapters all over the country. I know all of my sisters, and I would not change a thing about them. 

Fraternities lose their houses all the time. Not once has someone questioned their legitimacy. What makes us different? 

As an unhoused chapter, recruitment is increasingly difficult. This year, Panhellenic created a new registration website for all the potential new members (PNMs). Neither my chapter nor any of the other unhoused chapters had pictures on the website, while some housed chapters had three or four pictures of them in the homepage slideshow. Many PNMs are not open to the idea of an unhoused chapter, so we need all the positive marketing we can get. 

Recruitment troubles do not stop there. New recruitment rules state that chapters cannot have decorations for one of the rounds. The housed chapters are naturally pretty, but my chapter is supposed to compete with that by having an empty assembly space? Also, when other chapters give girls tours of their houses, a PNM is given the opportunity to see herself as one of them. We should be able to show a video that shows where we live and how great it actually is to be an unhoused sorority. 

These recruitment issues do not only apply to unhoused sororities. During fraternity recruitment this year, Bro Gam groups sometimes skipped certain unhoused chapters because they were deemed less important by that Bro Gam. 

Why are unhoused chapters so horribly treated? Most of us are new on campus and already have had to work our butts off to become a chapter. The least some more established chapters could do is welcome us into the community and support us. 

I will be the first to say that there are some amazing housed chapters that have been nothing but supportive of us. But let’s stop pretending that we are not treated differently. We are being told that we are less a part of the community than other chapters. And what kind of a community is that?

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

91713
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

69051
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments