Think back to the day you were born, or at least pretend that you have a memory of that historic day. Your parents are holding you in their arms and they are just so happy to have you in their lives. Wait, what did they just call you? Did they REALLY just name you that? How will people know how to spell it? HOW WILL YOU KNOW HOW TO SPELL IT?

These are the questions that haunt me before bed when I have flashbacks of the Starbucks barista yelling, "ELEANOR!" as I stand around waiting for my order wondering why this chick hasn't picked up their coffee yet. My name gives me problems on a daily basis, that, I fear, will never subside.

1. Having to introduce myself five times so that the person can get it right or at least nod their head and pretend they know what my name is.

2. NEVER. FINDING. ANYTHING. WITH. MY. NAME. ON. IT. I have accepted that I can search every gift shop there is, but I will never have a keychain or a mug with my name on it.

3. People spell my name so many different ways. Who knew there were so many different ways to spell it.

4. Getting used to my name being spelled/pronounced wrong that I start to rethink if my name is even really my name anymore.

The list can go on and on. As a person with an obscure name, I take pride in the fact that my parents thought outside the box. So go and hug your family and thank them for being creative!