We've been there. Done that. Think we've always got it covered when the problems come around.

Yet there comes a time (actually many times) during our lifespan where, even for the optimists, the answers seem to be lost; the clues can't be discovered and we ask ourselves, "What am I supposed to do?"

It could be something as simple as, say, a math problem. No matter how many different formulas you try, marks you erase, and buttons you punch on the calculator, the right answer never comes about. Or it could be on a more serious note, as in the loss of a loved one. We begin to question all existing matters during a time where our minds and emotions can be thrown for a loop.

It could also be anything in between: relationship problems, depression, losses, self-esteem issues, car problems, bills piling up, etc. Pretty much anything causing stress or adversity can drop us human beings to our knees if we allow them to. However, as someone who has experienced moments such as these, I have developed a code or rant, for lack of a better term, to follow in the event you find yourself questioning your inner ability to get the job done. For when Murphy's Law kicks in, this is how you combat it.

Keep going. Whatever it is you are doing. Keep going. Forget the naysayers, critics, and those who talk down to you. Find your inner faith. Find the reason you started in the first place. You are alive. You wake up each day with the ability to accomplish anything. Use that ability. If you fail, try again. If you fail again, try again. There will be dark days, but do not let them stop you. Use them as fuel to never forget where you started from. Never regret failing or making mistakes. Failure breeds growth. It teaches lessons winning cannot. Keep your head up. You'll miss the beauty of life if you always stare at the ground. Address the problem. Whether you write it or speak it, you will not be able to progress if there is no starting line. Hug someone. Sometimes the simplest cure is an honest hug. And lastly, your time is limited. So keep fighting, find light in what you are doing, and enjoy the ride.

Call it cliche, but it works. Sometimes all it takes is a deep breath and another effort. There is no reset button on the life we have, so keep pushing forward and adapt along the way.

"It always rains before the rainbow."

- Richard Colson Baker (Machine Gun Kelly)

P.S. If you are more of the visual type, check out these two links for extra motivation.

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