The fifth slice of pizza: Or even just good food. If it tastes good then it is good for you, right? Well, probably not, but sometimes rewarding yourself with something that tastes good is not always the worst thing you could do for yourself. Everything is bad for you, so a double cheeseburger from McDonald’s every once in awhile isn’t going to kill you. (Unless you eat them all the time, which I don’t suggest)   

A good pair of sweat pants: After a long day of school, work and dressing up for everyone else the best thing to do when going home is to change out of your jeans and put on a good pair of sweats. Forever oversized and not judging you for the fifth slice of pizza you had the night before.   

Girl power: Being in a sorority I’m all about the girl power, and not even just girl power, but also just people standing up for themselves. In a world full of meanies it is a good thing to stick together and be there for one another. That’s a huge thing I love about being apart of a sorority, because even if you are not best friends with every girl in it they’re going to support you, tell you when you’re being stupid and be there to pick you up when you need it most.   

Not being so hard on yourself: You’ve made it this far so stop being so hard on yourself because sometimes you’re going to have a bad day. Life is hard, and we all struggle, but being able to realize you make mistakes is the only way to fix things. Situations always get better. Remember, when one door closes another opens.   

The glass of wine after a hard day: And when you can’t find that other open door there will always be a glass of wine waiting for you. Get some friends together, sit around a table, drink some wine and just laugh it off. Coffee says get it done, wine says we’ll get them tomorrow.  

Lipstick: A good color lipstick can fix everything. An outfit that might be too dull can be spiced up with some red lipstick. I just feel more feminine and powerful when I where lipstick; like a Marilyn Monroe, Nicki Minaj and Beyoncé baby or something.   

Being honest: It’s important. People get caught up in their lives and sometimes it is easier to tell a lie to not hurt feelings and avoid conflicts, but being honest is an amazing quality to still have in the world we live in it today. Plus, lies will always be found out then you’ll be in a bigger pickle than you were in the beginning.      

Doing things for yourself: Someone said if you want something done right you have to do it yourself. True. Also, do other things for yourself. Dress up nice, because you want to. Get yourself a venti, because it sounds better than a tall. Buy yourself those shoes, because they are super cute and you totally do deserve them. 

Forgiveness: Everyone messes up, so stop being so hard on your friends and family and remind them that they are in your life for a reason. Saying sorry is easier than saying goodbye.  

God: I owe everything to this guy; always cleaning the slate and helping me when no one else is there. Sometimes I forget about him, but I know he never forgets about me and that is something to believe in.